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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sucks op but play the smart game.  That means do NOT Badmouth her, when your kids ask, cry, complain, rage about her.  Start family therapy with you and the kids.  The truth will out but it’s better if it’s not from you.  Always take the high road and let her crazy shine out in contrast to your stability.  Good luck, next Christmas will be better.  [/quote]

Agreed. I found out my DW was having an affair in September but it really started in July of this year.  It is an emotional rollercoaster at times and I had to verify with a PI to have concrete evidence.  I had to fake it during her birthday, the kids functions, and the holidays.  Amazing to see my spouse of over 18 years just become a pathological liar.  The evidence collected contradict her lies to me and our children.  From weekend outings supposedly with her friends, to work related trips, and even to family gatherings that she lies to her own parents to meet with her AP (who is married as well). From experience, it will be difficult (trust me) but you have to focus on the kids because they are smart enough to know that your DW has done something that has impacted their family.  She is extremely selfish.  You will be the strong dependent parent that your kids will count on.    [/quote]

OP here. How old are your kids and what is your relationship with them now? Who has physical custody?[/quote]

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