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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Very attractive as in stunning or model potential?

I disagree. Basing this on my good friend who is stunning. Her looks get her lots of attention but doesn’t transfer to relationships or even dates.

She gets hit on.  Guys just want to have sex with her or flirt with her for their own ego boost, but very few dates.

People always assume she’ taken.

It’s too bad because she’s a great person.[/quote]
This was my experience when I was young. I was very beautiful in an exotic sexy way. Guys were always intrigued by me and very attracted to me, and, of course, they wanted to have sex with me. But very few ever asked me on a real date or pursued a relationship for me. Most of them ended up dating and marrying the plain or semi cute kindergarten teacher types. I think that I, as well as other very attractive women, sometimes don’t fit the “image” some guys have on their heads of what a girlfriend, wife, or mother should be. Either that or all of the guys I knew were warped!  :lol: 
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This is soooo stupid. Men lusted after you but you never got asked out on dates? Really? Here you go, borrow this line: “why don’t we go out this weekend”. Say that to almost any guy who interests you. Tell me this doesn’t get you a date every time.[/quote]
I am PP. I was very open and straightforward with guys I liked, but all they were interested in was sex. They instead dated the plainer girls. [/quote]

This really sounds like sour grapes. I was also beautiful in my twenties (that feels terrible to say but multiple men said "you are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" and I was approached on the street by a modeling scout) and I had lot of successful relationships, 5 years with one man, 5 years with another and now 10 years with my husband. I was single for just a couple.monthw between each relationship, so perhaps I never got a chance to see what just hooking up was like.

I will say it's complicated -- the second relationship was stressful, I felt a lot of pressure to remain beautiful otherwise felt he would lose interest. But my husband is a dream and claims to love the inner me. I also look more normal now, just another semi-attractive middle aged lady who sometimes looks tired :) and it's a relief to be married to someone who loves me as I age.[/quote]
It seems like you came here to gloat. It’s nice that everything worked out for you, but other women have struggles with relationships, even if they are beautiful.[/quote]

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