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[quote=Anonymous]Being somewhat dissapointed for a fraction of a second would be normal imho - and then moving on and being mad at yourself and dh for not having a plan b. These kind of things should have been discussed and seen to during pregnancy. 
I think it is very good of your MIL to ackknowledge that it would be too much for her and for speaking up. She obviously has very good judgment and common sense of how demanding it is to take care of a child that age. I wish my MIL would speak up to my BIL who expects her to fly in for every freaking holiday to take care of his 4 kids because BIL and his wife want to have many kids, both work full-time but do not want their kids to be in the care of anyone who isn‘t family! My MIL has serious health problems but she has only opened up to me about how she feels. Kids can have a very special realtionship to visiting grandparents. My dd has and whenever my elderly and frail parents or ILs came, I made sure to only share the cream. When dd reaches school age I will still be glad for the opportunity to have her stay with them![/quote]

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