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[quote=Anonymous]Wow. There is a LOT to unpack here. 1. You say you know your MIL doesn't owe you anything yet are angry she cannot accommodate your demand 2. Babysitting is not a reflection of her love. 3. You have one plan for childcare - grandparents. That's not a plan. 4. You say your DD hasn't 'warmed up' to your MIL because she hasn't been around enough. How is she any different than a daycare provider? 5. Separation anxiety is extremely common. It is not a reason to forgo daycare. You need a transition plan. 6. It is absolutely wrong of you to compare your mother's ability to care for YOUR child with your MIL's ability to do so. 7. You owe your MIL a huge apology 8. For your DD's sake - and any other children you may have - you need to stop conflating 'love' with how much someone complies with your demands. [/quote]
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