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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Financial instability can certainly wreck a marriage, but I'm not sure the person who doesn't work at all has the right to look down on the person who keeps getting jobs but then losing them.  Why not get a career now, and let him stay home with the kids?  If you love him and the kids love him and you're going to end up getting a job anyway, why blow up the marriage as well?[/quote]

If his ADHD is so bad that he keeps losing jobs he’s going to be a disaster with the kids. She’s going to work all day and do all the kid stuff while he does next to nothing.

Terrible idea.

Better to divorce while you’re both unemployed and you can build up your career with support from your family. It’s going to be super stressful if you try to build a career while caring for 2 children and having to also deal with a DH who acts like a third child. [/quote]

This is assuming facts not in evidence.  His ADHD is now apparently terminal and prevents him from contributing to the household at all, but he held his last job for a year and she stresses that she loves him and the problem is [i]financial [/i]instability?  Not really likely.  If he was useless as a partner and parent it probably would have been mentioned in the OP.  [/quote]

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