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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]how does this work?  I've seen this guy three times now.  I'm married (my husband knows; we have recently opened our marriage), he's dating someone (she doesn't know).  I would like to see him regularly but have no idea of the logistics of FWB "dating."  I don't want to seem desperate and the reality is my time is limited.  He texted a few days ago to check in and I've made it clear I'd like to see him again but he hasn't tried to firm up plans.  Do I just let him take the lead?
Thanks.
and please, if you disapprove of my lifestyle, no need to comment...just move along.[/quote]

If you want to see him again I’d suggest taking control and suggesting times.

BTW, how was it being with someone new after a long time?  Was it good?

DH and I have toyed with the idea of a similar arrangement.
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I’ve been with a couple other guys besides my husband because we are also swingers.  It’s fun and exciting and makes me feel sexy again.   [b]Not sure how long I can sustain the FWB thing because I could see myself falling for this guy[/b].[/quote]

thanks.  Sorry about how things worked out for you.

Early 30s DH here. We swing too and each have a FWB. Open communication is always the most important to ensure that all expectations and boundaries are being respected. My first FWB professed a concern for falling for me= plug pulled immediately. If there is risk of emotional involvement it has to stop or you’ll damage your most important relationship. No side piece is worth it. But damn, the one I had to cut off was a FIRECRACKER and tight AF x1,000,000.[/quote]

This. If you can already see yourself falling for this guy, you have some serious choices to make. Coming from experience, you will probably (or have already) crossed lines without your DH knowing. Emotional attachments are a bitch in open/swinger relationships. Plus this guy is cheating on his other relationship by not being honest about you. This has drama written all over it. Run away. Your marriage is not worth a hook up. No matter how much better the sex maybe - find someone else. It ruined our relationship when DW fell for her FWB. We left each other and she thought he would be there for her. Well, she was just a side piece for him. [/quote][/quote]

Emotional attachments don’t have to be a bad thing—it just depends on what you want. I’m in a poly quad and have been for over two years—it’s great![/quote]

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