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[quote=Anonymous]I think my mom is secretly jealous of me an only child although my dad isn't particularly affectionate towards me.  I think he's always loved me however and she knew that and they had so many issues it contributed to her feelings toward me.  We're also alike in a lot of ways I'm fed her daughter! So there's personality issues there too.  I think that it's just complex altogether but some of it is just her - she's a bit crazy - too full of pride and a bit narcissistic to boot.  Growing up I have some good memories and her talent is amazing in so many regards.  There have been years we've stopped talking however but the longest was after my wedding.  Starting from age 33 or so thongs fell apart and I Gabe maybe talked to her 3-4x throughout the past 12 years. She hasn't met either of my kids but I know she'd love to.  The biggest current issue is that she's waiting for an invitation from me and her attitude is all about what we can do for her.  She's just nuts there's no reasonable actions with her is the problem.  It's impossible to forgive her for anything since the reality is she's living in her own dream world where she's the only one who matters.  It's sad and I miss having a mom esp the one I remember her as and I'm sad for my kids of course. I have a boy and a girl who is soon age 7.  We are unbelievable close and I'm ever grateful for this.  My mom really exerted her power over me and I am very attuned to not do same with my kids. I think you're either super close or super bad with your mom as a girl but unsure why.[/quote]

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