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Reply to "Argument about my fiance's 12 year old daughter"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you think his relationship with his daughter is codependent then you need to end it. Option 1) He doesn’t change and you spend the rest of your (likely short) marriage fighting with him and his daughter because you see her as a threat. Option 2) He does what you ask but he and his daughter resent your for changing their dynamic. Daughter will likely act out more and more as she grows because she will see you as the thing keeping her from a relationship with her dad. This is an existing family. You don’t get to come in and change it to matches your preferences without major consequences for all the relationships involved.[/quote] She’s marrying him. Things are changing just by that fact alone. Your list is evidence enough that this dynamic is not healthy for the child.[/quote]
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