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[quote=Anonymous]"They’re crappy parents and disappoint my husband constantly so that’s the worst think they’ve done to me - make my husband miserable, stressed and insecure."

This is my ILs too.  He so desperately wants them to be something they are incapable of.  As far as me, their passive aggressive behavior makes me insane For example, I have no interest in a 45 minute discussion about where to eat because no one says where they DO want to eat, and then say no to every place you suggest.  By then I am HANGRY.  Now I let DH and them discuss whatever the decision is, and let me know when a decision is made.

But the worst was when my first child was 4 days old.  Sure, not their first grandchild, but, and I will never forget this, I was sitting on the sofa with DD when they walked in (around 11:30, we had been expecting them at 10:00), MIL took a look at me/DD, said, "oh, I see you nicked her finger when you cut her nails, what's for lunch?"  I glared at DH who got them out of the room I was in and made food for them (and me).

I was tired, post-partum and overly sensitive, but expressing interest in DD, and thinking about us instead of themselves would have been nice.[/quote]

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