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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our DD's female schoolmates have been obsessed with these dolls since last spring.  Our daughter has never been especially interested in them (she's more a stuffed animal person), but her friends' behavior around the dolls has deeply upset her many times since the craze began and seems to be impacting her self esteem. Several of our daughter's classmates have 30 or more of them (including multiples).  The girls bring the dolls everywhere, and they can be quite disruptive.  Our daughter was recently at a movie with a group of classmates, and she complained that she missed a large portion of the film because several kids were getting up from their seats and acting out LOL doll drama (which they usually do in baby voices).  A group of girls was also regularly bringing the dolls to an afterschool class (where they were supposed to be learning but instead were distracted by the dolls).

The dolls are sometimes used as a measure of popularity ("people like Susie because she has lots of LOL dolls") and exclusiveness ("you can't play with us because you don't have one").  They are also an incentive to hang out with someone ("I'm going for a sleepover at Emma's, and she promised to give me one of her LOL dolls").

Has anyone else had issues with these dolls?  Most other parents I have spoken with them don't see the harm in them and have gone out of their way to feed the craze.  We keep telling our daughter that the girls will move on soon enough (they are in 3rd grade) and that friends should be valued for something other than the number of dolls they have.  I have also tried organizing more activities with boys or with the few girls in her class who aren't into the dolls.  Beyond that, I'm not sure what else we can do.  Any suggestions?

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My DD went through something similar at that age with certain toys. She just didn't get into them and part of it was she just didn't understand the game that the other girls were playing with them. It wasn't just about the dolls acting things out. There was this whole other layer of pretend play that went on top of it that my DD did quite get sort of like an inside joke among some of the girls.

I ended up just buying the toys in questions and giving them to my DD.  This helped because once she actually had the toy and then watched some videos she understood a bit more what was going on and seemed to not be as put off by the other girls playing with them so much. [/quote]

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