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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have a lot of trouble with this.  I'm a very active person who exercises daily and eats pretty well.  I put daily effort into basically staying approximately the same weight I've been my entire adult life (despite one pregnancy and one thyroid issue).  I'm not attracted to people who are more than a few pounds overweight, and I wouldn't be attracted to someone who had such a sedentary life or such bad habits that they gained 100 lbs.  (20 over the course of 20 years seems more normal.)

If something were going on health-wise, I'd try to be understanding, though.  Everything is not controllable.  But I'd need for him to be interested in solving the problem, because as I said, I'm not really attracted to "heavy" and I don't want a sexless marriage or a marriage where I'm literally faking it every single time.[/quote]

Do you have young kids and work 55 hours a week out of the home?  I've gained thirty pounds since I got married due to those factors.[/quote]

I also have two kids and run my own company from home. I’ve had multiple joint surgeries and weigh 10 lbs more than I did after kids. I’m ok with that but I make sure I watch what I eat and if I can’t workkut make sure I walk someplace or break up activity during the day. It’s not that hard. [/quote]

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