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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I caught my H (who has PTSD) cheating. I knew I had a 50/50 chance that he would blow his brains out if I kicked him out and my kids would be going to a house with a mentally ill father, every other weekend and Wednesdays. I sat him down and told him he had to move the to the nanny suite and start therapy. The 1st 6 months was rough on the kids - my son was the one who found out about the affair 1st. We still live together 3 years later, he has just finished intense therapy (4 times a week) and found a more suitable job. He will work on moving out over the next 9 months, slowly as to not slip back into deep depression. I know most people imagine PTSD as somebody completely crazy bit that is not how it works. Actually, for my H he was just more quiet and reserved. There was no fighting, no blaming, not hatred or revenge schemes. I knew he was ill and needed help and I got it for him just like if he had cancer. [/quote] Wow. Hats off to you. You sound like an amazing woman and mother. [/quote]
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