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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Staying with a cheater = ultimate demonstration of self-contempt, and admission you have low value and lack options[/quote] Amen Anyone who stays has no self respect.[/quote] Not true. Someone who stays and helps their spouse deal with their demons doesn't lack self-respect. If anything, they show compassion and understand that everyone is human and makes mistakes. My sister did this and their marriage is stronger than ever. Her husband struggled with issues from his childhood that lead him to engage in escapism and avoid conflict at all costs. He had a brief affair. She stayed with him while he went to intense individual counseling and they together went to marital counseling. She is truly happy now, but it did take time and was a very painful process. [/quote]
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