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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My first boyfriend was like this. I was 15 and he was 18. I asked him to stop staring at all the women passing by so he put on sunglasses.... I could not see his eyes anymore, but his head was turning back and forward... helpless. DH looks sometimes too, but would never comment... I would probably kick him in his stomach if he did that (jk). Talk to him! Explain! Also, [b]if he misses you getting dolled up, you should try to do it! Having small children is no excuse (not everyday of course). Also, you should consider having more sex not so that his eyes won’t wonder (I doubt it would have any effect), but because twice a month is not enough[/b][/quote]

Personally, the last thing I would want to do is get dolled up and have sex with a guy who is so brazenly disrespectful and gross. I hate when people say that's the solution to marital problems because it seems so....rape-y. If I was on a first date with a guy who openly checked out women, I wouldn't have sex with him in hopes that he'd stop, that would be crazy. [/quote]

Plus, it also puts the responsibility for men's bad behavior on women. Not a fan of that. [/quote]

Look I agree with you, but letting your hair grow and wearing hills once in a while is NOT a big deal. She should not do it so he will stop looking around, but because he misses seeing her like that. Is it bad if I ask my DH to wear a certain shirt one day that I like, or cut his hair or let his beard grow a little? I don’t think so. So why it’s bad to wear hills for a date night or get your hair done? She would just be showing that she still cares that he finds her attractive.[b] I don’t think his wondering eyes have anything to do with what the wife wears or her hair lenght, [/b]but he expressed that he would like to see her dolled up every once in a while... why not? For the sex part, twice a month is VERY little. Again, nothing to do with the home sband’s wondering eyes and rude comments, but I can’t imagine DH is happy with that little intimacy. BTW I also have little kids and currently pregnant with #3 so I get it. I always want to be comfortable and never have time to get my hair done. But if DH asked for something like that, I would try to do it right away.[/quote]

So why does she have to put in the effort when [i]she's[/i] not the one causing his creepy, unattractive behavior? Even if she does dress up, he's still going to continue. 
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