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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You cannot unring that bell. I know a number of women who stayed because of the financial and societal benefits of marriage. I would not describe these marriages as healthy, even when the partners love each other. Trust is nearly impossible to rebuild. A few women who were cheated on are now remorseless serial cheaters. I, for one, couldn’t live that way, but YMMV. I’m a woman who left my cheating husband, and I’ll couch the issue this way. If (1) my husband had been an otherwise joy, respectful, fun, kind, and thoughtful AND (2) had committed to rebuilding our marriage as his main focus after the cheating, I would have considered staying. Unfortunately, neither of these factors were present, and I saw no benefit, save financial, in staying with him. Even with that being the case, it was not worth my dignity. [/quote] X 2[/quote]
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