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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm surprised at some of the responses. It's not that I "care" per se that he has plans. We certainly do separate things all the time with our friends. We've just never in all our years of marriage unilaterally decided one of us was heading out for hours on a holiday morning. He got mad at me when I showed surprised, then anger, that he never even thought to check in with me. To me, that's just common courtesy. For the record, I would have said, of course, go ahead. But I was never even consulted when he chides me all the time for way lesser (i.e. RSVPing our daughter for a birthday party she's invited to. Yes, he expects to "consulted" on those.)

And yes, PP. We are hosting. His friends. Which I will now be prepping by myself apparently.[/quote]

You’re full of crap. You literally said you wanted to go on this group bike ride. So which is it—bike ride or slaving away in the kitchen? Did you change the narrative for sympathy votes since the consensus is you’re nuts?[/quote]

Um, what's with the anger? I asked him to come WITH ME to the bike ride, which is at 8 am, done no later than 9:30. Then we'd both come home and tackle TDay dinner TOGETHER. It's what we've done for 10+ years. Now, his plans take him out of being able to help at all. That's what I'm mad at. Sure, I can do a bike ride by myself with the group, but that wasn't the point. We've always done these TDay activities TOGETHER. I haven't changed anything. Thought that was clear, that we always did these activities TOGETHER. But what will happen, even if I ride and am home by 9:30, I'm still tackling dinner by myself because HE'LL BE GONE. What is so hard to understand here? I don't get these misogynistic "wifey" "which is it" snide remarks. But no, I'm not new here so I shoudln't be surprised.[/quote]

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