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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I’m not desperate. I was the one afraid to settle down in past relationships, but I’m ready for marriage/kids. I know she’s the one for me...I don’t see a reason to wait. We both want marriage/kids. I’m a strong believer in living together before marriage. I’m not going to propose now, but I want to do it before her timeline. She wants to wait at least a year, have a year engagement, and[b] then another 2-3 years before kids.[/b] I just want a wife and kids before that. I can wait on the marriage, but waiting 4-5 years for kids is not something I want. I’m not sure what to do, but breaking up might happen. [/quote]

It's normal to want to spend time with your spouse before having kids. Once the kids come, you won't be able to enjoy your spouse or relationship in the same way. Raising children is hard and it's even harder if your relationship doesn't have a solid foundation. Generally speaking, a 5 year timeline from dating to marriage to kids is very reasonable. [/quote]

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