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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here. I don't understand wives like this. It's common knowledge that men need sex more than women and that 9 times out of 10 their top love language is "physical touch." You need to put out at least once a week, no excuses, if you want to keep your marriage strong. We're all tired. But you fake it till you make it. You need to put the effort in to make your partner feel loved. Try to imagine what it's like going around feeling like you're not loved. That's so sad![/quote] Well, I think we need to ask OP if he is even initiating??? And if he is initiating, is it a firm initiation or is it a meek, timid one? If he tried some solid "I really want you right now and I'm coming to take your clothes off" approaches, he might get somewhere. He'd have to have the confidence to just brush it off if she rejected the advances, though, as pouting would only make things worse. [/quote] He said in a follow up post that he has stopped initiating because he feels totally rejected. They only have sex twice or three times A YEAR. Their toddler sleeps through the night and is not fussy. What is this woman thinking?! This is when husbands start to look around at other women.[/quote] You may think the woman is responsible here, and she of course has a part, but she is not on his board asking for advice, he is. OP - please go to the married man sex life website or get the book. It's one example of many resources available to get men to shift the dynamics in their marriage to successfully inspire genuine affection from their wives. Just asking her for affection she doesn't feel hasn't been working, has it? So try something else and see where that gets you. [/quote]
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