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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

MIL and SIL have felt that way ever since DH announced we are getting married. I thought they would settle in after we were married and they get used to having me around. The issue is they never liked me (or any of DH's previous GFs as they always feel threatened by any other woman) and now it is out in the open.

DH has stood up for me multiple times and we limit contact generally. He has told his mom and sister to knock it off but they have personality issues and do not care. DH does say that he will not be able to cut them off ever as they are his family. So limiting contact and only going over for special occasions it is.

However, I do not know how I can sit in the same room as them as I feel very hurt and unappreciated. [/quote]

I don’t understand what any of this has to do with you breaking up SIL’s family. Where does that accusation come from?[/quote]

[b]SIL is referring to their family of origin. SIL sees herself, OP’s husband and their mother as the family and OP as an outsider.[/b]

I swear, some of you just want so badly to blame the OP of every post that you don’t read and jump to any conclusion. [/quote]

Jeez. Thank you PP for explaining it to the dense ones. I suggested this three pages back but people couldn't quite get the concept. [/quote]

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