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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nobody is saying that people on the spectrum don't have feelings or emotional connections.

But [b]differences in social relatedness are absolutely the core feature of autism[/b], and this often includes less interest in socializing the way other kids do.

I'm not sure why this is even a matter of debate. [/quote]

No it isn't.  People on the spectrum have deficits in reading nonverbal cues not that they don't want to relate to others socially.

There is less interest in socializing because their deficit is in understanding nonverbal social cues.  If you don't know how to "read" people, it is going to effect your wanting to socialize even if you want to.

ASD is not about having "less social motivation" but that their deficits in nonverbal social cues makes people makes them less able to socialize even if they want to to which most due.  If you have been rebuffed by people, after a while you are going to give up.[/quote]

I think you're engaged in a ton of wishful thinking. Austism is not something that can be "cured" by expressly teaching social skills. Again, this is not to say that people with autism don't have feelings or want friends in some cases. [/quote]

Of course autism can't be cured but social skills can be taught.  If they can master the skills well enough, yeah, they can appear NT if slightly "off".  But yeah, they are still autistic not cured.[/quote]

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