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[quote=Anonymous]First, you seem to believe that since you want to make sure that you get money for your SN kids, you are not being selfish. That is not true at all. (And frankly, your kids' biggest hurdle may well be a narcissistic mother.) Your first "alternative" is to move your mother out of a city that she loves, to live with you - so you can preserve your inheritance. Your second alternative is for your sister and her family to move into your mother's co-op, despite the fact that the people actually making the move may not want that - in order to preserve your inheritance. In all of this, your primary goal is to preserve your inheritance. You give lip service to what is good for your mother, but in the end, it all comes back to spending the least amount of money so as to preserve your inheritance. That's pretty despicable, OP. You're a bad person. Also, the PP is right - is she's healthy, now is the ideal time to make this move, so as to avoid any 5-year clawback period. [/quote]
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