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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Human nature is such that people simply aren't always nice all the time. People get upset, hurt, scared, frustrated, irritable, rejected, jealous, guilty, ashamed, bitter, cynical, angry, annoyed, disappointed etc. When you put the situations that cause those feelings and the managing of those feelings into different developmental stages, you get different ways that people act on this. We don't live in a kumbaya world. There is conflict, and pain and sadness and adversity and suffering that is part of the human experience. Rather than trying to figure out how to avoid is completely and then being unable to cope when it happens, it is better to accept that this is part of life and figure out how to deal with it so it isn't so impactful. Growth comes from adversity and failure. A life that is everyone always getting along and no negative anything isn't possible or healthy. [/quote] Love this. I'm a young woman who was horribly bullied as an 11yo and now that I'm older, I realize that people just suck. Men and women manifest horridness in different ways. It's a great part of why I'm childfree because I see no point in continuing the human race.[/quote]
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