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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, we are doing a slight version of this. One of DD's friends lives an hour away, so she is sleeping over after the party. The other girls live 5 mins away. We're not making it a known thing. I think this is ok, but wouldn't invite half the girls to stay over![/quote] I think this is fine, even if it was known. Or if one friend's parents are out of town that weekend so she's staying over, or if OP's daughter had a widely acknowledged best friend. Kids get all of those circumstances even if they wish they were already included. However, setting up a situation where half the girls stay and half the girls have to leave is just unkind.[/quote] This. Sending half the kids home is just about marking friendship hierarchy. It's unkind. And I would refuse to facilitate unkindness. [/quote]
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