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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married 5 years with a 2 year old. He’s a good guy who works hard for the family. I have a healthy libido but I’m just not attracted to him. I used to be, but something changed and I’m not sure what it is. I can point to superficial things (he’s about 20 lbs overweight and doesn’t take care of his teeth, so they’re yellow and full of tartar) but I don’t think that’s it because when I met him he was at least 60 lbs overweight and I was attracted to him anyway. We haven’t had sex in 5 weeks and it’s really starting to hurt our relationship.[b] I love him and don’t want to get divorced but I don’t know what to do[/b].[/quote]

If the first part of this sentence before the "but" is true...then the second part is false, OP. You DO know what to do...you just don't want to do it.

Sex is not optional in a healthy marriage. It is integral. If you love your husband and want your marriage to survive, you will have sex with him, EVEN IF you are not attracted to him. Full stop.[/quote]

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