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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s a red flag he’s already introduced you to his kids and had you spend that much time with them. [/quote] Duh - he should not waste any time on someone that his kids hate. This was perfectly reasonable. He already knows her from interacting with her these past months.[/quote] “Duh” it’s not JUSTabout knowing her. Having your kids spend time with someone who they could get attached too, and the leave, isn’t a good idea. It’s not just the introduction, he had them spend the day together. OP if you decide to move forward, and he doesn’t have you spend time with his kids until you are serious, then maybe he just didn’t know how to end that day. However, if you move forward and you do spend time with them, that is a definitely an issue. They have dealt with so much loss, it’s irresponsible to have them get attached to anyone before it’s really serious. [/quote]
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