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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you already know this man through business and have known him for a while. He probably considers you a viable prospect for a relationship of some sort. If he is a busy dad of three young kids, his time is limited. So before he invested any serious time and energy in a relationship with you, he wanted to see you interact with his children.

To other PPs, his actions may seem a bit calculated. I don’t look at it like that however. He already knows he likes you and would like to see where this could go. But practically speaking, he doesn’t have time to take a step toward involvement without making sure you would be a good fit with his kids.

If you like this man, and you like his kids, I don’t see the harm in dating him. Now, if you work together, I do see the harm and that is a different matter. I suppose it depends a lot on how closely you work together and how often.

This could be a very sweet story with a happy ending. Or not. But I do not discourage you from finding out. As others have said, please remember the feelings of the kids involved. It sounds like you will, and I bet that is one reason this man finds you attractive.[/quote]

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