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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She knows about the childhood sexual abuse but not about a college date rape.

I'm not ashamed of the childhood stuff, but I do feel like I put myself in a bad position in college, so there is shame about that.[/quote]
We all put ourselves in bad situations at certain times. Why would your spouse judge you?[/quote]

She wouldn't, I do. So I don't talk about it. Same reason I don't talk about other things I've done that I'm ashamed of.

FWIW, I didn't get drugged, I let the guy into my room late at night knowing he was drunk and that he wanted sex, even though I didn't even really know him. I was stupid, I didn't try to stop it because I didn't really have the confidence to do that. I thought it meant he liked me. Instead, he told everyone and I earned the nickname "The 5th Floor Whore." I was an idiot.

I guarantee if he were in Kavanaugh's place today -- almost the same number of years later -- he wouldn't remember that night or me or any of it.[/quote]

You do realize that what happened to you and what happened to Ford are very different things, right. The guy you knew might not have realized you were unwilling. From Ford’s description, both BK and his alleged accomplice must have known she didn’t want her clothing removed or to have sex. I’m sorry about your experience, but apples to oranges. [/quote]

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