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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She knows about the childhood sexual abuse but not about a college date rape.

I'm not ashamed of the childhood stuff, but I do feel like I put myself in a bad position in college, so there is shame about that.[/quote]
We all put ourselves in bad situations at certain times. Why would your spouse judge you?[/quote]

She wouldn't, I do. So I don't talk about it. Same reason I don't talk about other things I've done that I'm ashamed of.

FWIW, I didn't get drugged, I let the guy into my room late at night knowing he was drunk and that he wanted sex, even though I didn't even really know him. I was stupid, I didn't try to stop it because I didn't really have the confidence to do that. I thought it meant he liked me. Instead, he told everyone and I earned the nickname "The 5th Floor Whore." I was an idiot.

I guarantee if he were in Kavanaugh's place today -- almost the same number of years later -- he wouldn't remember that night or me or any of it.[/quote]

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