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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pls explain why you wouldn’t tell your spouse? It’s a pretty big thing that affected you? Why be ashamed?[/quote] I just didn’t want to. No good would come of it. It won’t make me feel better. He knew the guy. He’s from our hometown. There’s a minuscule chance that we could run into him when visiting family. It’s already weird enough, and I don’t want to add another layer. Besides, it’s been 22 years since it happened. It would be weird to tell him now. I never told anyone. I think your question is judgmental. It’s my story to tell. If I choose to tell or keep it private, that’s what I want and should be respected. It’s not just about shame. I don’t want that weird sympathy look from my DH that people give when you tell stories like that. [/quote]
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