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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't cancel credit cards or hide money, op. Don't do anything like that without guidance from your lawyer. And while you are financially self sufficient, have you looked at the child support guidelines and factored that into your future---along with splitting assets 50-50, etc.? Just because she allegedly cheated, that doesn't mean you get custody and you don't have to pay child support. [b]A grown-up who truly cares about the kid wouldn't pull a gotcha like this. You would talk I while the kid was at school/daycare and commit to therapy. The [/b]best uncouplers talk to a therapist, not a lawyer, first...even if only to determine how to tackle the separation, eventual divorce, etc. with the goal being to learn the best way to tell the kid and handle coparenting. [/quote] Are you kidding me? Someone who has cheated an entire marriage with multiple people isn’t worth going to therapy with. Sometimes you have to have taken personal responsibility for yourself - like way back when you agreed to marry someone else. This is an absurd and stupid post. [/quote]
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