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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My guess - and OP will have to chime in here - is that DH is generally not present in the marriage (or perhaps as a father). He stays up all night devoting time to the hobby, spends one night a week out with friends. Hobby seems to occupy a lot of time that would otherwise be devoted to spending time with DW and DC. My guess is that DH is shortchanging that and DW is frustrated.[/quote] This. DH here with a wife who is a lot like OP's husband. It's not the hobbies (multiple) that bother me, it's the cumulative amount of time she's absent from home or completely tuned out when she is at home, between hobbies, business travel and her friends. And believe me, I'm not the only one who notices, so does our kid. I usually feel like I'm somewhere at the bottom of her list of priorities. I hate the idea that our child might feel the same way. [/quote]
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