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[quote=Anonymous]You are not crazy to want that alone time op. Especially if you are a loner like me and need that downtime to recharge.

I totally get what youre saying... 
He's disrupting your alone time
Disrupting your you and your child's schedule 
Disrupting downtime 
Creating additional household chores for you to manage

I get it But I do not think you handled the situation well in terms of communicating to him what your specific concerns are with him coming home. If I were you I'd ask to speak with him to apologize for blowing up and then go on to explain what is causing you frustration.

Just snapping at him and saying don't come home is not good. It communicates the wrong message and indicates that you don't want him around. FYI there are tons of pretty young pleasant girls circling in the workplace ready to pounce and I'd much prefer my DH coming home to be w family during lunch vs having lunch with his pretty young female coworkers. It's both of your homes and it seems like he sees it as a place of respite from the chaotic world. Don't push him away. Instead try to create a welcoming environment for him to come home to. [/quote]

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