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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Got married young. Had kids young. Never got my fun single 20s. Regret it. I’ll be 42 when my youngest goes to college. So I guess I’ll have my fun adventures in my 40s. [/quote]

Honestly that's a fine time to have some fun adventures. Yes, you're not as vigorous or good-looking as in your 20s, [b]but you have more money[/b], more savoir-faire, [b]and most of all you are free of the big existential questions hanging over your head in your 20s. [/b]For a lot of people their 20s are not actually a care-free time because there are so many concerns about what your future will look like.[/quote]
Not really. Those big questions are still hanging over your head because they were answered automatically (by marriage and kids) during your 20s. Back then, you were defined by your spouse and kids so you still might know who you really are as a person and what you could have been if you traveled your own path un-tethered by family obligations. You might have more money but not as much disposable income (college expenses, mortgage, saving for retirement, etc.)[/quote]

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