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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did you get past the fact that they cheated?[/quote] You never really get past that fact but you arrive at a place where it just doesn't seem like this huge very important thing any more. I stayed because I saw clearly what my life would be like post divorce, and I decided I don't want that. I don't want to half the assets or time with the kids; I also didn't want to give up help with the kids while they are with me - we have three young ones, and it is quite simply easier with four hands than two. Life is long and we are all flawed imperfect people. It helps that I am genuinely fond of my husband but I think that this experience made me take him less seriously. [/quote]
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