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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Adding...my DH and doing what your DH proposes. We live well, but also well below means and it appears well below other people we know in similar income ranges. The trick is BOTH of you being on board with whatever plan you choose. If one is working high stress (which will add to the others stress trust me - this is a dual situation) and one of you starts to “upgrade” your lifestyle, then you are deviating from your plan - may be fine but you should talk through this and also touch base about your goals periodically. I’ll say..,we’ve been at this about 8-10 years and no regrets. Financial security is well-worth the effort and I agree...this income could be gone at anytime. Make hay while the sun shines [/quote] OP here. Yes, you get it. Essentially, DH wants what he calls “FU money.” To the other PP, I am actually on board picking up the slack (kids are a little older now, would have been harder before) as long as DH doesn’t get cranky or snappish.[/quote] They talk about "F U Money" all the time on that show Billions. But they mean, you know, billions of dollars. Normal people can't earn that much in a lifetime.[/quote] I disagree. I think FU money is the amount you need to walk away from a job you truly hate to give you the time to find something you truly like. Or, to simply say I have enough and I'm going to retire. [/quote]
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