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[quote=Anonymous]It’s not right for parents to blame a 15yo for squandering an opportunity. TBH, I come from a land (poor, middle America) where it is never assumed one will even go to college let alone that it would be funded at all by parents. I paid my way through college after enlisting in the military. My parents tried to help as best they could along the way. In the end my younger siblings probably received 5-10x more financial help. They just didn’t have enough money to do things fairly. They wanted to help so much more but could only do what they could. Which meant it wasn’t really fair. My dh comes from more money. It’s so easy then. I remember everything was always equal for them. 3 equal college funds. And they even had 3 equal wedding funds. Having money makes it easier to be fair. I don’t hold this against my parents, but I’d like to have enough money to be fair for my kids’ sake. [/quote]
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