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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I used to go out (I have 2 kids and currently pregnant with #3 so don’t go out much), I used to love male attention and I used to get it a lot. I don’t have any trauma, but I am very sexual and it feels/felt great to have a man wanting you. It’s not a competition for me. Also, somehow, I always got a lot of attention without trying...[/quote]

Just curious. Was your father in the home? A workaholic? Affectionate or aloof? How would you describe your home life as a child? Was Mom around? Did any provider travel a lot, military? Maybe a childhood boyfriend that cheated and broke your heart while you were still a virgin?

No matter what, no judgment at all from me. Just curious. Is it possible some past experience (nurture) impacted this personality (nature)? [/quote]

Nope to anything you mentioned. Have a great dad whom a had a great job and basically never drank. Mom worked and was successful, but still loving and present. Neither was a workaholic. I did have several boyfriends, but none broke up my heart. Some were sad breakups of course, but nobody betrayed me (that I am aware of). Some people are just more sexual than other and lead with their sexuality when they first meet someone. I think men can perhaps sense that and are attracted to that? 
It does not hurt that people (men and women) regard me as very attractive and naturally fit, but I don’t think this is the reason why I get/got more attention when out[/quote]

I think you are confusing getting attention with thriving on attention.

I get tons of attention, I don't really want the attentions. I get it... I'm good looking and sexy but I really don't appreciate the staring, I find it creepy... you find it self affirming. The question is why do you like to get your affirmations from strangers. [/quote]

I don’t find it creepy nor self affirming. I don’t NEED The attention and I don’t do anything to invite it (maybe I look a bit more in a certain direction). I would never do something like was mentioned above. However I am very sexual and I love the feeling of being close to a man that wants you. The tease and all that goes with it. I don’t mind men saying something on the street, but I don’t love it or care for it either. I am happily married and I don’t need anybody else’s attention to make me feel beautiful, but even with my husband I love feeling that he can’t keep his hands away from me... I don’t know if I am making sense. It has nothing to do with self affirmation and all to do with sex and sexuality[/quote]

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