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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP it speaks well of your ex that he's committed to sustaining his children in a good lifestyle/in the family home. However, it is not unreasonable, if you are going to be serious about the relationship, to have a deadline for when that commitment ends. He should tell his ex wife now, something like, "Six months after the youngest leaves for college, I'll be ending my contributions to the mortgage. Instead, I'll consider contributing a portion of those resources to little Susie's tuition/housing costs whatever." FYI my ex and I still own our house together. He left me with two very little children. I pay the mortgage alone. I've had a few roommates over the years to defray costs. I plan to sell the house as soon as the last one leaves for college and ex and I will split the proceeds. Currently we split costs for home repairs.[/quote] sorry, "speaks well of your boyfriend".[/quote]
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