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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. We sat down and discussed it. She has decided against the slow fade. She said it isn’t fair to leave someone wondering like that, and it will just drag out the unpleasantness for everyone. I asked if she was concerned about retaliation, and she said the worst he could do was photoshop her head on someone else’s nude pics.

I do have some concerns about this method, but I also need to follow her lead. We talked about the possible outcomes, and she would prefer to risk it. She isn’t going to call him out on everything he’s done. It will be a simple “X and Y aren’t comfortable sitting with you at lunch.” If there’s backlash, I will take it straight to the school administration. Her less shy friends will be there to back her up. This life lesson in empowerment is a critical one, especially for someone who tends to run away from dealing with unpleasant things/feelings.

As far as sharing the other details with the school, it isn’t my place. Those girls may not want their parents to know. I don’t have enough information to go to them, even if I wanted to. The blackmailing incidents were last school year. This type of blackmail is not uncommon. The first similar incident I heard about was in 8th grade. My DD trusts me with this kind of information, and I’d prefer it stay that way. [/quote]

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