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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, married man who was in your shoes.  Wife had a lot of dates, I didn't have so many, which wasn't a big surprise although if we were both single I would have zero trouble attracting high quality women.

The problem is obvious:  in general, women don't want "just sex" which is what you are basically advertising.  In general, men love "just sex" which is what your wife is advertising.

Now, the way I got more interest was to advertise for more of a relationship.  Meaning, to level the playing field, I had to be allowed to open up the relationship to allow me to take other women on awesome dates, overnights in fancy hotels, even a weekend away.  I had many more women interested in this.  The problem was, my wife was jealous of the fact I was planning a NYC weekend with one very attractive woman I met.  It wasn't just the emotional intimacy, but the money we were going to spend.

Point being, just "opening" the marriage for sex isn't really a fair trade for men (unless you get off on your wife getting off with others).  To be fair for both, your wife needs to let you bond emotionally and financially with other women, and the hot sex will follow.  Will she?[/quote]

This is true. [/quote]

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