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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe I'm projecting my own biases since most posters don't reveal their genders, but it seems like the guys are generally saying "be honest and give him the reason," which is respectful but also confrontational, while the women are generally saying "ghost him" or "make up a lie about getting back together with an ex," as a way to reduce the potential for conflict. I'm a guy, so I would suggest the former (he did bad things in his past; he did not mistreat you)[/quote] I think for a woman, if she feels unsafe, the ghosting is the best option. Men don't usually feel unsafe in this scenario. But they can be aggressive, demanding, and pushy when they feel disrespected and get angry and can be violent. Not all men. Hey, not even most men. But enough men so if a woman is killed we pretty much know there is a 98% chance it was her boyfriend, husband, or ex who did it.[/quote]
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