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[quote=Anonymous]I go to therapy on the weekends, while my child is with my STBX. Find one that takes your insurance, or see if your employer offers an EAP.

Organize your finances. Do you have cars. What are they worth? Life insurance? Assets? What is your debt? Student loans, car loans, credit cards? Know all these numbers. Better if you can figure out what the financial picture was when your got married too.

Cut your budget to the bone now, so it isn’t a shock later. Throw the extra money into savings. Even if you have to split the savings with your spouse, half is better than zero.

Go through your house, and toss/sell/donate everything you don’t need. Keep an inventory of what is left and what you want to keep—you will need this in the divorce. You may have to move/downsize, so pare everything back now. It makes moving easier.

Can you make more money at a different job? It may be worth it to you to seek new employment. Make sure you are looking at total compensation, so you’re not shorting yourself just for a slightly higher salary.

Document everything. Arguments, abuse, parenting, etc. Everything.[/quote]

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