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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]5 years, 2 new cars, multiple vacations later and I still can’t stand my DH for an EA. I just completely despise him, openly. Once kids hit college, I will demand that we sell our house, take 1/2 of everything and begin living. I love the kids, though. He’s sad, remorseful, whatever else and I don’t care. I did the 180 and feel empty when I look at him. I just count the days til I live free. [/quote]

Doesn't sound like you're doing anyone, especially your kids, any favors by living that way. [/quote]

I think the kids were not a thought when he had the EA. Like I said, I feel zero towards him. Just can’t stand to be near him. I don’t fake it for the kids. Sorry, but I won’t. My wedding  bands have been off for two years. I will be happy. Without him. Not doing anything bad to the kids. Please. If anything, he did wrong and I just don’t play fake it. [/quote]

If you aren't faking it for the kids why wait for  them to go to college?[/quote]

Because I have a nice lifestyle and don’t want to ruin it. Once kids leave, I can buy a place in another state where I want to be. Kids will go private (not in state) so I will be more free. [/quote]

So you, your spouses, and your kids happiness are the cost to sustain your lifestyle.

You’ve said you don’t “fake it” from the kids, so my only guess is you don’t hide how unhappy you are.

If it’s worth it to you to brood over an EA, at the cost of impacting everyone around you. Yes he made a bad decisions you are not exactly contributing anything positive to the situation either.

But hey - if a nice handbag and a Lexus are the price for you and your family’s happiness, seems like you and your DH have equal, selfish valued and are made for each other.

FYI - maybe you should make your own thread while you’re at it. [/quote]

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