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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am rooting for you! If the company doesn't want you because you don't match a physical stereotype or age they're looking for, then screw them. What you said here: [quote]And I am really going to work hard to be myself. I am far from perfect, but I am really good at what I do and part of the reason for that is that I am generally comfortable in my own skin and confident but not arrogant. One of my clients once told me that he loved working with me because I was so smart but didn't take myself too seriously and I have a sense of humor that I use to connect with his team. So I really need to just return to myself and shut down those critical voices. I don't have to be 120 pounds to be professional and polished. [b]Sorry that last part did sound a bit arrogant. [/b][/quote] If a friend said this to you -- you would probably tell to delete the last sentence. You aren't arrogant and you have nothing to apologize to your company or the world for. You are self-confident and experienced and you have every right to be proud of your skills and abilities. I'm sure you're going to look great -- focus on putting together outfits that are comfortable enough so you can forget you're wearing them. Feeling self-conscious about whether something is tucked in or hanging right or on straight is a confidence-killer. Get your outfits dialed in so that you can focus on standing up straight, putting your shoulders back, and wearing a genuine smile -- you will blow them away.[/quote]
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