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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have a major DH problem. My aunt is a miserable person. Her 3 sons have nothing to do with her because of how she treats their wives. That's a good husband. You're husband has chosen his family over you. There really isn't any other way to look at it. Your MIL has been awful to you and makes you cry. You want to protect your kids from that toxicity. Your husband told you "oh well, then I don't want kids with you". That is MESSED up. [/quote] Op here. My husband says he cannot control his mother or sister. They are their own people. His love for me should be enough. He says I don't need to go see her and he is happy to go by himself.[/quote] OP, you can’t ask your DH to cut off all ties with his family, and/or refuse to allow his family any contact with your (future) kids. The MIL does sound like a manipulative, sloppy drunk (whatever the FIL is like). That’s not enough. [/quote]
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