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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men don't have to be trained. They aren't dogs.[/quote]

If a guy came on here talking about “training” a woman to perform sexually he’d be run out of here.

Sexism, racism, ageism, body shaming - it’s all only ok when it’s aimed at white guys.[/quote]

Most men, and women for that matter, view sex through a male pleasure paradigm. Generally men will need to be "trained" to understand what their partner enjoys, simply because they've never really had to think about it from the female perspective and no one is really teaching guys this stuff. [/quote]

That has to be the biggest load of crap I've read in quite some time here on DCUM and that's saying something. [/quote]

Why do you say that? I actually think that's pretty accurate. [/quote]

Because it assumes that women are somehow naturally gifted and magical lovers.  My experience has been that they are a mixed bag at best. It's a two way street and it's all about communication.  Just because a woman can make a man O relatively easily doesn't make her good in bed.  This attitude that, by definition, "good sex" is all about the woman's pleasure is garbage.  It's supposed to be about mutual pleasure and, if the person is someone you care about, a deeper emotional connection. [/quote]

OP here. It's the same for both genders. As a PP suggested, the idea of a older, retired guy is perfect. I did go out on a date with someone 10 years older recently. He called me "kid" as the date ended  :( [/quote]

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