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[quote=Anonymous]Single parent here - I actually just started reading the book "Hold Me Tight" by Sue Johnson and it might be really helpful for you. I know you said you don't think it can be fixed between you two but coming from experience working on things is soooooo much better for you, your spouse, and the children. This book is all about attachment and how we fight when we aren't getting what we need emotionally. Maybe for the time being you could separate while you work on things but if you can stick it out and get help that would be the best thing you could ever do. I really do hope you can work it out and understand why you are fighting rather than just calling it quits. I will be praying that you can come together and with the help of a professional get to the bottom of your fighting. I know you said he is starting things most often but there must be a reason. I was surprised to learn the deeper pieces of attachment that started arguments through Hold Me Tight. Maybe it will shed some light for you as well. PS My therapist recommended it to me. :)[/quote]
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