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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I don't have a career either, so it's not like I can justify why I waited because of career.  I'm 41 and I make $20/hour working part-time in a "hobby job."  Fortunately we do not need my salary (DH is in a high powered career) so financial wise it doesn't matter that I make only $20/hour but it matters to me/feeling like I never lived up to my potential either career-wise or family-wise.  Though family-wise was completely not in my control other than the fact that I waited too long to get pregnant the first time.

I wish I had primary infertility instead of secondary, because if I had had primary I would have done IVF and had a few embryos to freeze, and could have done a FET for a sibling.  Instead I got pregnant on the first try and then could not get pregnant a second time over the span of 5 years.  [/quote]
No guarantees OP your first IVF could have failed to take and remaining embryos could have been destroyed in freezer failure or something else. Be thankful you were able to get pregnant and have a beautiful child.[/quote]

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