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[quote=Anonymous]Imagine how hard it was for them to watch everyone else gave kids OP.

I'm in the situation and there is no way I would have said anyone in my family we were trying:they would have either made cutting remrka about us not getting pregnant or/ and hpundedme about how it was going.

I kept on thinking that it would happen and we would also have a baby to play with their cousins. Nope. And imagine goign through this and knowing your own mother or aunt would make fun of you or minimize what you are going through. Which is what I experienced after I told them we could not have children.

And, after going through all this, we haven't money left to pursue adoption and are in our 40s now anyhow. People who casually throw around the adoption, haven't tried to do one lately. Even the foster care system where we live in only accepting people who are willing to foster children who have known special needs and medical issues.

It's not about you OP. I'm sorry your relatives weren't more forth coming, but they probably have reasons that have very little to do with you. Have fun hanging out with everyone in your family who could have kids and move on.[/quote]

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