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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I don't relate to anything you said.  I don't think of myself as having three children, just the two who are alive. I don't think of myself as having "an angel in heaven" or any of that stuff.  I moved on. I never think about it except when someone comes along and tells me how I must feel because I lost a pregnancy at 31 weeks. And then all I feel is annoyed.  I have to deal with who is HERE. It happened, it sucked, and I moved on. [/quote]

OK, but you do realize that we are all different right? Please let us mourn without guilt. [/quote]

Of course we're all different. But just like you're doing here, when I express my feelings on this issue, I am basically shushed, because I don't feel the way the majority of people talking about it seem to feel. Just like I feel zero guilt about my abortion, and in my entire life have only heard one other woman (in person) say she feels the same way.

I was asked if I, as someone who "lost babies" would welcome this thread. I'm allowed to have the answer of "no." Maybe OP phrased it wrong and should have said "If you lost a baby and would like to talk about it, come here to this thread." And then I would have just skipped by it. But that's not what she asked.[/quote]

It’s OP - You are right. I didn’t post this topic to only get similar responses. I thought everyone’s input about their experience would help others who’ve experienced the same. I admire your strength and do not judge your feelings at all. Your post might help someone else who feels exactly as you do. So that’s a good thing, right? Maybe someone didn’t post here because they were hesitant to say that they’ve moved on and would be judged for it. We all must move on and keep going for our families. I am glad that you’re at peace and your kids have an honest & strong mom! [/quote]

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